This month urges one to create a sense of gentleness towards self. Now what is gentleness here? It’s actually the quality of being kind. This is the time when you ask for help and not "beat yourself up" about it in your personal enviornment. This is where you let this exterior of control fall to the ground and understand that it is safe for you to be so vulnerable. Professionals and business holders bitching loudly in a working environment may prove to be harmful. Be cautious of what you say to whom, for what you’ve said will be held against you and the context forgotten.